Use a love letter to spice up your creative family beach vacations

A love letter can say so much. This little item can add a bit of romance to your Creative family beach vacations...here's how:

Why?
Nothing is as powerful as the written word. You've heard the phrase, the pen is mightier than the sword? Why not use the pen to your advantage and express your true feelings to that special someone who lights up your life.

The Tools
In reality all you need is a piece of paper and a pen, and in a pinch, these will do. If you have the opportunity, jazz it up a bit. This will show that you put some effort into the words on the page. Use some beautiful writing paper with a pastel-type color, such as cream or beige. A fountain pen adds a personal touch, and if your know calligraphy, so much the better.

Your Surroundings
You want to go off to a location with an atmosphere complimentary to thinking, reflecting, and writing. Find a nice relaxing, quiet location, and put on some soft music if you so desire. Turn down the lights, and light a few candles. You want to be in the mood, and reflect these thoughts on the written page.

Personalize It
You want your love letter to be kept and treasured for the ages, so be sure to put the date on it. Add the location you are writing this from if it's special to your loved one.

The Opening
How to open the letter...hmmmm. Use a pet name if you like, but make the opening of the letter reflect your relationship. My dearest <...> or my darling <...> are good ways to start.

Keep Rolling
Open the letter by mentioning why you are writing. You want to draw the reader into why they should continue reading, and what lead you to this point in the correspondence. Above all else, be heartfelt and honest. Readers, especially those close to you, know how to read between the lines.

The Substance
You are now to the meat of the correspondence, and this is where you will have the bulk of your content. Explain some reasons why you love them so much. Tell them how much they have enhanced your life. Draw a picture of how empty your life would be without them. Recall some of the special moments you have shared together. Shower it with emotion, not fact.

Intent
Your love letter should be a work of art. You want to weave a tapestry of words that will make her fall in love with you, not fall into a deep sleep or fit of laughter. Express your true emotions as they will leap from the page.

The Right Direction
It takes a while to craft a fine document such as this, so don't expect it to be perfect the first time around. Get your general thoughts down...that's a step in the right direction...then take a break. Go for a walk, or a glass of wine, or a cup of tea. Think about what you have written, and relax. After a few hours of reflection, come back and update your rough draft. You will have new insights and better wording, and you will gradually shape this letter into the masterpiece you desire.

The Ending
You've put a lot of work into this letter, now's the time to bring it to it's rightful conclusion. End with a small phrase of poetry packed with emotion. Create a line that will resonate long after they finish the letter. "I close my eyes, think of you, and my heart skips a beat" is just one example.

Special Somethings
Is there a "special something" that you could add to the letter? How about a few leaves from their favorite flower. Scenting it with her favorite perfume is nice. How about a little photo of a romantic evening you had a while back? Let your imagination wander...

Clean and Neat
Carefully fold your letter, and place it in an envelope that hopefully matches the stationary. Address the envelope to her in your own handwriting. If you choose to mail your love letter, choose a stamp that reflects your love. There are plenty of stamps with flowers, birds, etc. to help convey your message of love.

Add a love letter and spice up your creative family beach vacations.

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